"Why do I want to dialogue in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I hope to gain in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I like best about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I like least about you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I like best about myself in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I like least about myself in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What do I like best about us in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"What mask do I wear in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"When am I least open to listen to you in the area of child raising? HDIFAT?"
"In the area of child raising what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail."
"How has/would never having children affect my/our life? HDIF about this?"
"How have our children experienced our love this week? HDIF sharing this with you?"
"How do I feel about being a sign of God's Love to our children or to other children? HDTMMF?"
"What change have I seen in our children since dialogue? HDIFAT?"
"How do our children’s activities affect our relationship? HDIFAT?"
"HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?"