DIALOGUE

"How do I feel when we have a large number of people over? Describe in loving detail."

"Which Retrouvaille couple do I feel closest to? Why? HDIFAMA?"

"HDIF when I am given advice by others, but I did not ask for it? HDIFAMA?"

"Is it difficult for us to pray with our friends? HDMAMMF?"

"Have we thought about getting together with our friends to pray? HDMAMMF?"

"Are we free to ask our friends for help anytime we have a problem? HDIFAMA?

"HDIF about God's plan for our friendships?"

"HDIF after a night of entertaining friends in our home?"

"What barriers or attitudes do I have that keep me from developing an intimate relationship with our friends? HDIFAMA?"

" 'Very few burdens are heavy when everyone lifts.' -- unknown author Do we share our burdens with others to lighten the load, or do we suffer by ourselves? HDIFAMA?"

"Do we share our joys with others, and spread the good news, or do we celebrate alone? HDIFAMA?"

"When was the last time we called our special friends just to tell them we love them? HDMAMMF?"

priest/religious question:
"When was the last time I called my special friends just to tell them I love them? HDMAMMF?"

"What friendship has meant the most to me this week and why (besides spouse)? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I respond to overtures of friendhsip from someone I have already decided to reject? HDIFAMA?"

"Have I told my friends how important they are to me? HDIFAMA?"

"Am I more likely to make a few close friends, or many acquaintences? HDIFAMA?"

"How important are friendships to the health of our relationship? HDIFAMA?"

"Do we make the time to pray with our friends? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when I/we receive a phone call from an old friend I/we haven't talked to in a long time? Describe in loving detail."

"What friend(s) of yours would I rather not be around? Why? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question:
"What friend(s) of my people would I rather not be around? Why? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when an old friend of yours/mine comes into town and wants to spend some time with you/me? Describe in loving detail."

priest religious question:
"How do I feel when an old friend of mine comes into town and wants to spend some time with me, but I already have commitments with my people?"

"How do I feel when someone asks me/us, 'How is your dialogue?' Describe in loving detail."

"Why do I want to dialogue in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I hope to gain in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like least about you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like least about myself in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about us in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"What mask do I wear in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"When am I least open to listen to you in the area of our friends? HDIFAT?"

"In the area of our friends what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail."

"What qualities do I look for in a friend? HDIFAMA?"

"What couple, that we know, do I see as important to us and how have they affected our life? HDTMMF?"

"How do I feel about other couples supporting us? HDMAMMF?"

"When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT?"