DIALOGUE

"What gift that I received from you today am I most thankful for? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What do I judge to be my greatest weakness? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"Here is a little quote from _Illusions_ by Richard Bach, 'There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands.' HDIFATS?"

"What gift have you given me in the last week, two weeks, month, etc., that I have really appreciated? How do I feel sharing this with you? (The gift can be a kind word at the right time, a hug when it was needed, a phone call, etc. It shouldn't be a material item.)"

"What strengths do I think I might have, but I am afraid to try or rely on? HDIFAMA?"

"Which of your qualities do I take for granted? Do I compliment you on them? HDIFAMA?"

"What quality in myself have I discovered through your eyes? HDIFAT?"

"How do I feel about the phrase, "Dialogue is my gift of myself to you? Describe in detail. HDIFTYT?"

"How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important?"

"God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?"

priest/religious question:
"God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?"

"How do I feel when you go out of your way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when one of my people goes out of their way to do something nice for me? Describe in loving detail."

"What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? How do I feel sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question:
"What special gift of myself do I offer to my people today? How do I feel about my answer?"

"God gave you to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?"

priest/religious question:
God gave my people to me. How am I treating His gift to me? HDMAMMF?"

"What present would I give you today, if I could give you anything? HDTMMF?"

priest/religious question....

"What present would I give my people today, if I could give them anything?

HDTMMF?"

"What would you do if you had a magic wand that could grant any wish? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when you make a special effort to make me feel important? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when my people make a special effort to make me feel important? Describe in loving detail."

"How well do I use the talents given to me by God? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel about the Blessings and Gifts God has given me/us? Describe in loving detail."

"What gifts do I/we have to offer Retrouvaille? HDIFAMA?"

"What would I/we personally like to try to help make Retrouvaille better? HDIFAMA?"

"What gift do I have that I rarely use? HDIFAMA?"

"When I reflect on what a gift you are to me, I feel... HDTMMF?"

"What special features do I see in you that fill me with warmth and tenderness? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What do I say about you when you are not around? HDIFAMA?"

"A time when I/we went the extra mile to help someone out was... How do I feel recalling this?"

"What will I give up or do in the coming year, to follow God's plan for us? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel about the time we spend with our family and the quality of it? What would I like to change if I could? HDFTMMF?"

"If I could change one and only one thing about the world, what would it be? HDIFAMA?"

"What talent do I wish I had that I do not? HDIF telling you about this?"

"What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What is my favorite gift from you? HDIFAT?"

Priest/religious question:
"What is my favorite gift from my people? HDIFAT"

"What prevents me from being generous to you and others? HDIFAT?"

"What potentials have you helped me develop? HDMAMMF?"

"What do I need from you, my partner, to help me develop my potential? HDMAMMF?" "My most unusual ability/talent is... HDIF sharing this ability/talent with others?"

"What gift of myself have I given to you today? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"What gift of myself have I given to my people today? HDIFAMA?"

"What gift did I give back to God today? HDIFAMA?"

"What attribute/ability/gift of yours am I most proud to share with others? How do I feel sharing this with you?"

"What have I done today to help others? HDIFAMA"

"If I could dedicate a song to you today, what would it be and why? HDIF sharing this with you?

priest/religious question::
"If I could dedicate a song to my people today, what would it be and why? HDIFAMA?"

"Have I been critical of you or accepting of you this week? HDMAMMF?"

"What do I consider my strengths? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question::
"What do I consider my strengths? HDIFAMA?"

"I see you as someone very special because... HDIFSTWY?"

priest/religious question::
"I see my people as very special because... HDIFAMA?"

"Do I give more than I receive, or receive more than I give? HDIFAMA?"

"When was the last time I complemented you? DYFID."

"Have I brought healing to you recently? HDIFAT?"

"How can you help me realize my good qualities?"

"HDIF when I see ‘thanks’ shining in your eyes?"