"What do you do that makes me laugh? HDIFAMA?"
" 'Life is what happens while we are making other plans.' HDIFAT?"
"HDIF when I make you laugh?"
"Of the people I know, who do I judge has the best sense of humor? HDTMMF?"
"How do I feel when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession, ethnic background, gender, etc.? Describe in loving detail."
"How do I react to practical jokes? HDIFAMA?"
"How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? Describe in loving detail."
"How do I feel when I hear the sounds of laughter coming from another building? Describe in loving detail."
"What would I like to do in the next month if I knew I had only one month to live? HDMAMMF?"
"What does our relationship need, the most? HDIFTYT?"
"How does my self-esteem, or lack of it, affect our relationship? HDMAMMF?"
"What areas in our marriage are good? HDIFAT?"
"What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT?"
"What divides us and causes us to become "married singles"? HDTMMF?"
"Do we accept each other as we are or do we try to remodel each other? HDMAMMF?"
"In what ways have I shown my acceptance of you in the past week? How do I think that has make you feel?"
"How have I experienced understanding in our relationship? HDMAMMF?"
"What about our relationship would I like to improve? HDIF sharing this with you?"
priest/religious question:
"What about my relationship with my people would I like to improve? HDIFAMA?"
"How do I feel when someone plays a practical joke on me? DILD."