"What is the side of me that I least like you to see? Describe it. HDIF sharing this with you now?"
"What quality of yours helps me to decide to be totally honest with you? HDIFAT?"
"How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAMA?"
"If I could be anyone from history, who would I be and why? HDIFSTWY?" How do I feel sharing this with you?
"Where would I like to go on vacation if I could go anywhere in the world? HDIFAMA?"
"What is my favorite room of the house and why? HDMAMMF?"
"What would you do if you had a magic wand that could grant any wish? HDIFAMA?"
"If I were asked to draw a picture of something representing my spouse, what would I draw? HDIFAMA?"
"My greatest goal in life is... HDIFA my progress?"
"The most interesting thing you've taught me is . . .. HDMAMMF?"
"What advise would I give a young bride or groom (pick one)? HDIFAMA?"
"If I could live my life over again, I would... HDIFAMA?"
"In what area do I most need your help in living my sacrament/calling? HDIFAMA?"
"How do I feel when I think about the couples and religious that will be making the next weekend?"
"How do I think we got together? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?"
priest/religious question:
"How do I think I ended up at my current parish? Accident, Fate or God? HDIFAMA?"
"When was a time recently when I tried to know you better? HDMAMMF?"
"How do I feel about putting more fireworks into our life? HDIF sharing this with you?"
"When I am open to you, am I also open to God? HDMAMMF?"
"What promises did I make to you on our weekend? How well have I kept those promises? HDMAMMF?"
"Do I find other women/men attractive? HDIFSTWY?"
priest/religious question::
"How do I deal with my physical temptations? HDIFAMA?"
"When do I feel least recognized as a capable person?"
"How have I changed recently?"
"What strengths do we have to offer each other as a couple?"
"What strengths do we have to offer others as a couple?"
"In what ways am I still ‘wrapped in a cocoon’? HDIFAT?"
"What changes would I like to make in response to my failures? HDIFTYT?"
"What are the negative effects my mask has on me? HDMAMMF?"
"What do I find most difficult to talk about because of my mask? HDIFTYT?"
"What mask am I wearing today? HDMAMMF?"
"If I could change one thing about myself, I would change ________. HDIFTYT?"
"Why do I want to be fulfilled by you? DYFILD."
"Do I sometimes control you instead of accepting you the way you are? HDIFTYT?"
"What keeps me from showing you what you really mean to me?"
"Can I identify with hurting couples? DYFID."