DIALOGUE

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when I try something different in my sermon/homily/prayer/etc. Describe in loving detail."

"What actions or behaviors do I/you use to say no to sex non-verbally or indirectly? HDIFAMA?"

"What fears do I have about our lovemaking? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"Is there wonder or boredom in our lovemaking? HDIFAMA?"

"What can we do to improve our sex life?"

"Have I ever thought that you used me sexually? Describe how you felt, and feel in loving detail."

"For what reason am I most likely to tell you 'no' when you want to make love? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What risk am I willing to take to love you sexually the way you want to be loved? HDIFAMA?"

"What effect does making love to you have on me? HDIFAT?"

"What parts of your body are sexually exciting to me? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What strengths do you bring to our sexuality? HDIF sharing this with you now?"

"Do I give you my full attention when we make love, or do I get distracted by other things? HDIFAMA?"

"Does my attitude toward sex lock some doors in our relationship? HDTMMF?"

"Do I see our sexual relationship as an expression of our total relationship? HDTMMF?"

"HDIF when I know we're going to have sex?"

"HDIF when you are hungry for sex?"

"What part does God play in our sexual communication! HDIFAT?"

"What part do I play in our sexual communication! WAFAT?"

"How do I feel about the last time we made love? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religous question:
"How do I feel about the last time I celebrated mass/preformed service/etc.? Describe in loving detail."

"Besides our bed, where would I most like to make love to you? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious questions (2):
"Besides my church/temple/etc. where would I most like to celebrate mass/conduct services/etc.? HDIFAMA?"

"In what area would I most like to reach out to my people? Why? (or Why haven't I before?) HDIFAMA?"

"What can I do to improve our sexual relationship? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when couples show signs of their sexuality in front of me? Describe in loving detail."

"Does our lovemaking extend beyond the bedroom? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do I love my people beyond the confines of my church, parish, synagogue, etc? HDIFAMA?"

"Do I usually initiate our love making, or do I wait for you? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do I usually initiate friendships with my people, or do I wait for them? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when you say no to making love? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when my people say no to God? Describe in loving detail."

"How do I feel when I/you initiate our love making? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when I hear couples talking about their sexual relationship? Describe in loving detaiL."

"I enjoy our sexual relationship the most when... HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question:
"I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when... HDIF about my answer?"

"What do I think about my ability as your lover? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious questions:
"What do I think about my ability to love my people? HDIFAMA?"

"What do I think about my ability to accept my people's love for me? HDIFAMA?"

"Do I think we talk about our lovemaking enough? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious questions:
"Do I ever regret that my vocation requires a vow of celibacy? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when one of my people shares details of their intimate family life with me?"

"On a scale of 1-10, how would I rate our sexual relationship? HDIFAMA?"

"My ideal lovemaking would be... HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What are my attitudes in the area of our sexual relationship that could cause us not to be as close as we could be? HDIFAT?"

"How does my mask interfere with our lovemaking? HDIFAT?"

priest/religious question:
"How does my mask interfere with my celebrating mass/worship service/etc.? HDIFAT?"

"Do I ever feel used in our lovemaking? HDIF Sharing this with you?

priest/religious question:
"Do I ever feel used by my people? HDIFAMA?"

"What aspect of our lovemaking do I enjoy the most? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question:
"What aspect of my priesthood/religious life/etc. do I enjoy the most? HDIFAMA?"

"Why do I want to dialogue in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I hope to gain in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like least about you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like least about myself in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What do I like best about us in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"What mask do I wear in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"When am I least open to listen to you in the area of sex? HDIFAT?"

"In the area of sex what feeling do I find most difficult to share with you? Describe feelings in loving detail."

"How do I feel about the amount of time we spend on foreplay? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel about the amount of time I spend preparing for mass/service/etc. Describe in loving detail."

"How is our sex life? If I think it is unsatisfactory, how can I make it better? HDMAMMF?"

"If our lovemaking is a form of communication, how well are we communicating? HDMAMMF?"

"What is it about you that I find most attractive? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"What is an attitude I had about sex entering marriage? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"On a scale of 1-10, I would rate our sex life a... How could it improve? HDIFA sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question::
"On a scale of 1-10, I would rate my services/masses/etc. a... How could it improve? HDIFAMA?"

"Where do I place our time for making love on my lists of priorities? Is this a value or an ideal? HDIF telling you this?"

"Lately, how have I responded to you sexually? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"Lately, how have I responded to my people's demands of me? HDIFAMA?"

"What are my expectations for our love-making? HDIFSTWY?"

priest/religious question::
"What are my expectations for my people's participation in mass/service/etc.? HDIFAMA?"

"What can I do to make myself more sexy to you? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"What can I do to make myself more available to my people? HDIFAMA?"

"What are my attitudes about our sex life?"

"HDIF discussing our sex life?"

"When I think of sexual desire, I think of _________."