DIALOGUE

"What can I do to make it easier for you to confide in me? HDIFAMA?"

"How has my confidence in you changed since our weekend? HDMAMMF?"

"What keeps me from trusting you completely? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"What keeps me from trusting my people completely? HDIFAMA?"

"Would I rate the level of trust in our relationship closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Would I rate the level of trust with my people closer to a 1 or a 10? HDIFAMA?"

"How well do I do trusting God to answer my needs? Describe in loving detail."

"What can I do to make it easier for you to trust me with yourself? HDIFAMA?"

"What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you with myself? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious question:
"What can I do to make it easier for my people to trust me with themselves? HDIFAMA?"

"A man goes to the Grand Canyon. It is his first time there. He is marvelling at the beauty when a stranger arrives. The stranger takes out a big awkward rifle with a line attached, fires it across the canyon and runs a high wire across the canyon. He ties it off, then proceeds to take a wheelbarrow on to the high wire and wheel it across the canyon and back. The man is astonished! Amazed! Left speechless!
When the stranger comes back, the man rushes to him and says, "WOW! That was incredible! I've never seen anything like that!"
The stranger says, "Thank you. Do you mind if I ask you a question?"
The man says, "No, by all means. Go ahead." The stranger says, "Do you think I can do it again?"
The man looks puzzling at the stranger then says, "Of course you can! You just did it. Sure you can do it again!"
The stranger asks a second time, "Do you really think I can do it again?"
The man, so impressed by the strangers humbleness, tries to encourage him, "I'm sure you can do it again."
The stranger asks a third time, "Do you really _believe_ that I can do it again?"
By this time, the man is beginning to think the stranger is just pulling his leg and says, "Look, I saw you do it once. If you would have asked me before you did it, I never would have believed it. After seeing you do it, I'm 100% sure you can do it again. So, yes, I believe you can do it again."
The stranger puts the wheelbarrow on the high wire and says simply, "Get in."

A couple dialogue question we like to use with this is:

"Do I trust God enough to get into the wheelbarrow? HDIFAMA?"

"How many times does God have to ask me before I get into the wheelbarrow? HDIFAMA?"

"Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT?"

"Do I put my independence above my trust in you? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do I put my independence above my trust in my people? HDIFAMA?"

"In what area do I trust you the most? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"In what area do I trust my people the most? HDIFAMA?"

"In what area do I trust you the least? HDIFAMA? (this does not say _NOT_ trust you, just the least)